Uncertain Underclassmen: Approaching hook-up culture on campus
Dear Sexpert, Throughout my first few weeks on campus, it seems like everyone is focused on hooking up during nights out. I’ve never done anything like that before, but I feel kind of pressured to...
View ArticleDistant Date: Maintaining your mental health and sex life
Dear Sexpert, I have a history of struggling with my mental health, namely depression. I recently changed my medication and have been feeling different ever since. The biggest problem is I’ve felt...
View ArticleFlavorful Fluid: Addressing health concerns regarding oral sex
Dear Sexpert, Things are getting kind of hot and heavy with this guy I’m seeing. We’ve only made out so far, but I have recently been thinking about trying oral sex. I’m worried about the taste of my...
View ArticleDistance Doubter: Long Distance Relationship Over Break
Dear Sexpert, I’ve recently gotten into a relationship, but with winter break coming up soon, this is the first time my partner and I are going to be apart for more than a week. Fall break and...
View ArticlePuzzled BC-Taker: On birth control
Dear Sexpert, I’ve been dating my partner for over a year now, but I fear things are not going well, and we are likely close to the end of our relationship. A couple of months into dating, I decided I...
View ArticlePrivate Pleasure-Seeker: Navigating Self-Pleasure in College
Dear Sexpert, I’ve been reading here on the Sexpert about the benefits of masturbation, from stress-relief and to being a healthy activity, and I even read about sex toys. My question is though, when...
View ArticleTentative Test-taker: STI Testing
Dear Sexpert, I have been sexually active with multiple partners for three years now. Though I am not currently experiencing symptoms nor know of exposure to anyone with an STI, I am really nervous...
View ArticleEager Explorer: Navigating curiosity, sex, and self-discovery
Dear Sexpert, I’m starting my first year here, and everything feels so new and exciting — especially when it comes to dating and sex. I’ve never really explored my sexuality before, but now I’m...
View ArticleApprehensive Adventurer: Sexual exploration in a relationship
Dear Sexpert, My partner has asked me if I would ever engage in roleplay and sex that includes “tying me up.” I’ve never done anything like that before and could be open to the idea, but feel weird...
View ArticleMistake Maker: Establishing boundaries in friendship
Dear Sexpert, Last weekend, I hooked up with my friend, and now things are super awkward since they want to keep seeing each other. I really value this friendship, but I’m not looking for anything...
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